Babysitting 2002: Just Go, Just Go

Pre-Covid: Parents threw their kids at me.

Post-Covid: Parents don't know how to let go.

It's hard letting go of your kid and leaving them with a total stranger. I get it. I understand. It's even more challenging for the parents than the kids, though, because I assure you that as soon as you let go and leave, they may cry, but they will stop. It does not help your child to get to know me when they see mom and dad hovering around. So go, please go. You pay me to be here to watch your kid. 

To sitters, do not be intimidated by a crying kid or a kid who refuses to let go of dad. A few gentle words go a long way in consoling a child. If that doesn't work, try offering them a treat or a toy. I bring toys to jobs where I know I have not babysat for the kid. They're unfamiliar to me, and Im unfamiliar with them. This is intimidating for us both. Toys tell a child, "I am friendly. So don't be scared."

It helps to babysit families of all backgrounds. Don't limit yourself to what you're familiar with. There is a whole world of kids out there. I took a babysitting gig where the mom said her girls had separation anxiety. I came, talked with them, played with them, and interacted with them. They were so comfortable after their parents left that first visit and are now accepting of other sitters.

Back to parents, I would hope you have a good sitter. Im, a fantastic babysitter. I can't speak for everyone, so I can understand the hesitation and the worry, but please, if you are going to stay home as most parents are post Covid-19, stay upstairs, downstairs, somewhere. 

Now, if you want to pay me and help me watch your kid, I will not complain.